In case you have missed it on the news, here is a complete report.
The case of the attack on girls at a pub in Mangalore, has really shocked many of us. Shocked, not because this is the first time, but because words like "talibanisation" have been brought to our doorstep! What we cursed them for, what we almost supported a war against is now happening in our own back and front yards!
Firstly, I think we have to agree (a majority of us) that the freedom of choosing any religion or culture wrests with the individual. It is not up to you, him or god to tell me whom to follow, what to wear and what my "culture" is. It is a basic freedom that our republic offers. So, when groups such as Ram Sena and others justify these attacks with sayings such as "This is not in our culture" - I fail to see the point!
I strongly believe that we need to have an independent, non political body to govern moral policing in India. Political parties, left right or centre never seem to take action against them. Its either a weapon against the other party or a shield against themselves.
Also, a strong signal must be sent from people that such practices will not be accepted. For which, we need to find out from ourselves, if we are all for it, or apathetic to it or against it! I think such bodies that conduct these attacks are immune to Bands, protests and other traditional forms of protesting.
At the same time, we need a good educational system that channels our "culture" and "moral values" in a manner, where children/youngsters are aware of it and cam make conscious decision whom to "follow" and what their culture need be. This way, soon hopefully we will have a more holistic bunch of rulers in our growing and emerging country.
I remember there were a few more Blog entries, at the start of BSY's tenure about the increase in moral policing in the Mangalore are and the home minister's response was that he will "look into it." Well i do sure hope he does look deeper into it this time around!
At the very least I hope the people responsible - and I mean those responsible and not only the messengers - are brought down, and treated as per the law. That would be a quick pain killer to the situation.
Rediff.com reported an interesting quote by a lawyer "If you take the Pub out of a republic all your left ith is a Relic!" - How appropriate right now!
ಪ್ರತಿಕ್ರಿಯೆಗಳು
case of encouragement?
I hnoestly think that use of terms like talibanisation etc are overkill for this incident. Its a law and order problem, key is to probe and see if some political party or figure used "these methods" to settle scores with either the pub owner here. These things usually work that way.
I wonder if lack of strong action in the recent incidents of attacks on churches have encouraged the "let me fix it myself" groups. The deeper truth of the church attacks were like this:
One group within the christians in Dakshin Kannada region are seen (from first hand knowledge, I know that they are) very aggressive towards conversion. And, there is reasonable resentment towards their methods. The 'attacks' were directed towards only this group, not all churches.Government has been a little light (now, this is an allegation, I have not verified this in any credible way) as they know they have some "ground support" in this "indirect" stance against aggressive conversions.
However, letting vandals get away with such acts is not the way to deal with the situation. If it feels the need to act, it must explore legal ways (however controversial) like banning conversion for meny or whatever.
I am afraid that "light punishment" approach may have set bad precedents for the region. Folks of all kinds could use "these methods" to settle scores or brag about their ideologies.
Or both?
Don't worry Narayan - this is just the start. I am just amazed that these people take it on themselves to usher in Indian culture - whatever that means.
If Mutalik wants to live in the past he is welcome to. He can stop wearing tailored clothes, wear clogs, stop using toothpaste, go walking or in a chariot or on horseback, stop using electricity (of course these sort claim that electricity and planes were invented by the ancient Hindus!), don't go by train anywhere, etc etc. He can ask his Sene to do the same. We can have Sati once again and burn women who don't bring enough dowry in. BTW Nazis had similar ideas about a great and glorious German history. They also believed that a woman's primary duty was to give birth to babies and take care of them at home.
With a government that actually spent money warding off "bad luck" from a solar eclipse by doing pujas all over the state, I doubt we can expect anything rational. These people also form part of their vote bank and BSY cannot antagonize them too much.
We don't need moral policing - independent or otherwise. There is the normal police and there is the law.
You're right - if we keep quiet, then we will be next in line. How do we send a strong message out?
Srivathsa
Drive safe. It is not just the car maker which can recall its product.
definitely talibanisation
Shooting the messenger - thats what we are doing!
Srivatsa,
Good point there about lifetyle's of the moral policers!
So leads me to the same question - how do we send that message out? Firstly, I think arresting the 27 culprits - isn't going to solve anything. They were simply messengers. They were probabbly college students/drop outs who were sent there to accomplish a task. Which is why the whole issue of the molesting charges came up. These messengers were given a free ticket to do what they want in order to "punish" them. So, my jailing these 27, nothing is going to stop the next 27 from doing another attack.
What we really have to do is crack down on such fundamentalist organisations. To me, they are the same - whatever religion! Yes, it is a free country and we can practice any "culture" we want, but at the same time, we must protect the other persons right to do so. And this can be done through a good education system. If we mentally enforce this right to the new generation from an early stage, hopefully in the future such organisations will not have the taskforce of support.
But I also have this feeling that this whole item is nothing but a political ploy!
Narayan Gopalan
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
Bunch of frustrated souls
In an interview in Times Now, one of the victims narrated how they were manhandled and molested. Many of the girls' dress were torn apart. After all this - they say "These girls are like my sisters" !!!
I was shocked out of my wits to see the way they were attacked - http://ishare.rediff.com/...
If a society treats a woman like this - we dont deserve to be called a society.
Our freedom is at stake here. How can some one tell us what is right and wrong for us. Who are these people to define what is morality - a bunch of jobless, frustrated, neglected people - being instigated by people like Muthalik. It is an attack on the rights promised by our constitution. It is a clear human rights violation.
If these people were given a free hand, i am sure they will also bring down every temple on this land - citing obscenity.
If things are not controlled, they will only get worse. I doubt if the politicians of BJP will do anything at all apart from all the cosmetic stuff they have done till now.
But is there anything that we can do - apart from cribbing here? Can we write to NHRC?
Prajasevaka :x
internal terrorism
The threat to the country from internal terrorists of this kind are far worse than those from external ones like LeT, JuD, etc. What is urgently required to tackle this is state level reforms as detailed at
http://bangalore.praja.in/blog/murali772/2008/12/30/state-level-reforms-linked-security-issues
The civil society needs to push for it with all its might.
Muralidhar Rao
How do we stop this in the future ?
Disgusting !
Women in the Nazi State
Enlightening. IMHO it is a power game with men increasingly threatened by what they see as the breakdown of their once invincible bastion.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/schools/gcsebitesize/history/mwh/germany/womenrev_print.shtml
"Women were supposed to emulate traditional German peasant fashions - plain peasant costumes, hair in plaits or buns and flat shoes. They were not expected to wear make-up or trousers, dye their hair or smoke in public.".
And see this interview in today's TOI
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Bangalore/RSS_has_some_advice_for_Rama_Sene/articleshow/4044051.cms
"Your organization has been preaching a lot about the ideal Indian woman. Who, according to you, is an ideal Indian woman?
We regard Indian women as akin to Mother Earth. It is she who has the responsibility of giving birth, nurturing and preserving our values. This, however, does not mean that she will be confined within the four walls of her house. She has every right to enjoy life and accept the positive features of modernity. But sadly, she is increasingly becoming a victim of westernization and this is weakening our traditional Indian culture. That's really worrying us. "
Why can't we regard Indian women as simply normal human beings, who have the same set of needs, wants and desires as men? So men go scot free and are not responsible for "traditional Indian culture". I would love to hear what this traditional Indian culture looks and feels like.
Srivathsa
Drive safe. It is not just the car maker which can recall its product.
Supreme Court - needed
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
re:How do we stop this in the future ?
Disrupting public order
Taking a step back, there needs to some legal step to introduce strong penalties for "disrupting public order". I am no legal expert. May be this already exists, but the thing we are looking for is a strong tool to deal with "mobocracy".
Collect 20 people, and you can get away with anything today - damage to public property, attack to business establishments, rallies that disrupt life in our city - all these are symptoms of the same disease - some people think that "mobs can get away as along as there is no murder involved".
re:Disrupting public order
analysis or action possible?
"I don't think these thugs need a fair trial, straightaway imprisonment it should be for them"
bialterminal also suggests using POTA as a tool to deal with miscreants who disrupt public order?
Perhaps our emotions are boiling over here. How about we turn this into a reasonable discussion? Wouldn't it be nice to provide a link to POTA, or list the provisions under it, or status of POTA in Karnataka, and if it can be used in cases like these? I am sure not for I have read some.
Or, how about filing an RTI with Police to ask what happened to the cases of public property damage and arson during Dr Rajkumar's death ceremony? Did the police act at all? Or did the miscreants get away using some legal technicalities as bialterminal suggests in a comment above?
I realize that emotions lead us to make blanket and motherhood statements, but I don't think we should do that here on Praja. What is reasonbale and sane for me can be entirely the opposite for another person. That is why we should do analysis, reason or fact based suggestions and discussions.
Sorry if I broke the tone of this discussion. Just felt like reminding ourselves about some things.
POTA details
Found POTA 2002 here - http://www.satp.org/satpo...
Read definition of terrorist organizations:
http://www.satp.org/satpo...
Read definition of terrorist activity in section 3.1.a and 3.1.b:
http://www.satp.org/satpo...
Perhaps, the concept of special courts can be borrowed to deal with "mobocracy driven disorderly activities":
http://www.satp.org/satpo...
Anyway, the point is, does anyone know about the legal provisions that exist to deal with such organized group-ful disorderly activities? Perhaps the legal tools are interpretation based and thats why the police can't swiftly, or the state interprets thingsin its own convenient way. I wanted to understand this angle.
re: analysis or action possible?
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with intent to threaten the unity, integrity, security or sovereignty of India or to strike terror in the people or any section of the people does any act or thing by using bombs, dynamite or other explosive substances or inflammable substances or firearms or other lethal weapons or poisons or noxious gases or other chemicals or by any other substances (whether biological or otherwise) of a hazardous nature or by any other means whatsoever, in such a manner as to cause, or likely to cause, death of, or injuries to any person or persons or loss of, or damage to, or destruction of, property or disruption of any supplies
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Please note the bolded words. It really depends on how this law is used in this case. It really depends on how much spine,guts & will there is at the highest levels to go all out for the severest punishment. Agreed that we are not legal experts, at least we are well educated to see that this has struck terror in the minds of people and this is not the first time. We have had many such incidents in the past and nothing has been done.
Ram Sainiks are in the wrong; but Pub culture is also wrong.
Do you support alcoholism and drug culture?
Criminal Media
in response to Mayank: "But
Some questions for
Re:Mayank
Where the law is broken - we must enforce it. Where an individuals opinion/choice is withing the law we must respect it. That's the right to freedom we allow in our country.
If I choose to don a cowboy hat instead of a Turban - its my choice and I have every right to do so. I cannot be forced to wear a dhoti or a kurta. I can choose who I want to follow. If I want to believe that a certain western country's culture interests me more than my own - then I have every right to follow that culture.
What, I personally do not like is the fact that many of us cant be satisfied by following the culture ourselves, individually but instead want to preach and convert the whole nation into the same principles. No individual is greater than the other - and hence each one will, and should have the right to choice/freedom of thought.
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
Mayank, do what you want to, but don't ask ME to..
Yes, indeed it is time for "instrospection". It is time to introspect, why is it that with the "great and rich heritage" of Indian culture, our women are among the most unsafe in the world. It is time to introspect why West European women, with a "morally corrupt" society, are the safest in the world. Time to introspect as to why girls and women there are able to walk home from the station in the middle of the night, ALONE, without fear whereas Bangalore girls, Delhi girls and Indian girls are scared to move around alone even in the daytime, let alone nights.
Hats off to parents who teach their children "morals, religion, prayer, 'good values' ", even as they continue to bribe, cheat, litter, persecute (maids, other castes, etc.), demand dowry, are the WORST hypocrites, etc. etc. etc. Are YOU advocating a society that is into child marriage, caste oppression, dowry burning, systemic corruption, etc. that is how Indian society is, and in the name of "preserving culture", people defend anything and everything that happens in India, because, according to them, anything that is Indian is part of a "rich cultural heritage" and it automatically much better than the "morally corrupt West".
What I am trying to say is, no one here advocated teenage pregnancies, and all the rest which you have mentioned. All I want is, let people live their lives as they wish to, PLEASE? Do not impose ideas of culture.
Will my view of culture be followed?
For apologists of the "Ram Sena" in general, and not necessarily only you in particular, I present the following:
MY view of Indian culture includes wearing Dhotis. I DEMAND that you wear dhotis, or I will attack with a mob of 40 men. If I find denims on Indian men, I will safeguard Indian culture in ways that I deem fit.
My view is the 'purer one', isn't it? Takers, anyone?
How do you know about the western world?
You are wrong.
Law is subjective and keeps changing
Its not about a small issue about Dhotis and Kurtas
Laws and Morality
You see if Laws were built on Individual Morals or Morals of a selected commuinity then we would not be a democary. taliban was such an example in my view. I didnt support thier laws or views as an individual. I felt the were oppressing some parts and liberalising some parts of society in a unbalanced manner.
But, I am quite sure that none of the moralistic obligations (not going to a pub, women not dancing...etc) will not be a majority decision. And enforcing such ideas will not work as a democracy. Coz, then every minority would want to impose his/her laws.
But what I still cant understand is why as individuals we can't follow the cultre we want to and instead want everyone to follow an individuals culture. I think its greed more than need.
Narayan Gopalan
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
What I am trying to say is,
Even If I were to assume for
A Misconception.
Enforce the Law not the Moral
Mayank,
Be clear what is against the moral and what is against the Law.
Clear, good and stern enforcement is what is required to tackle a large number of your concerns. Smoking/Drinking is not allowed below the age of 18. Hence why not enforce Pubs, Shops to insist on Age Proof?
Drugs are illegal. Again, why not enforce the law, have more stringent checks and catch those reponsible?
But, if a 21 year old women, wants to go to a pub - shake a leg and sip a drink, you and I cannot stop her, nor can her parents and now can any organization. If a 23 year old girl wants to wear tight jeans and a sleeveless top, hold a boys hand and walk in the park - we have no right to stop this.
Thats my point.
Narayan Gopalan
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
Is the media doing its job?
Dont even get me started on Media
Again, I am not quoting anyone. I am merely Emphasizing MY point of view.
Dont even get me started on Media! I can hijack this thread into wonderland! The thread started after Mumbai Attacks has my view penned there!
"My point is that we need to contain freedom to some extent"
I would term this as the Law. And what we need is to enforce it well.
Narayan Gopalan
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
Laws are constantly changing.
Clarification.
Not maitaining a high
Containing freedom need not be the law
There might be a fundamental problem here.
Containing freedom need not be the law
I agree to an extent
How's it different?
missing the point
Today it is pubs, in the past quite regularly a certain group has gone on a rampage on valentine day destroying cards and shops selling them, tommorrow if punjabi bhangra dance becomes popular and folks get into it enmasse there may be similar incidents in the name of "protecting culture" threatening people not to go to such dances. It doesn't matter what is right or wrong about these activities but the point is that incidents like what happened in Mangalore have been happening and will continue to happen if something isn't done.
Ill effects of alchoholism(drunken driving, health effects etc.) can be tackled through educational awareness, better parenting & law enforcement. Such a discussion about alcoholism and it's effects belong on a separate thread.
Media does not alone determine election outcomes
On the topic of pub culture, I am not sure what you mean by that. We have tried prohibition before it did not really help except the illicit liquor business. Again the Ram Sena's problem was not really liquor or the pub it is women being present in a pub. Is pub as a format worse than the road side liquor shop ? If so, why is it so ?
I object to your use of Talibanism.
Can we allow deterioration of society in the garb of freedom?
It's all about law & order !
Here is my 2 cents. If we really analyze this issue closely, it is a clear case of mis-governance and pathetic Law enforcement.
The accusations that Pub & Bar culture is threatening Kannada & Kannada Pradesha's long held cultural values, need to be looked at. No one can deny that there is a exponential rise in outlets that are licensed to sell alcoholic drinks from Toddy, arrack to wines. In my last 2 visit to India (one in 2002 and 2006), what I experienced and found out was that 2 businesses are thriving every where from a small village to cities is - Money lending and Liquor business. Experience tells us that due to politics, narrow political & ideological gains these businesses have been left unregulated and almost un supervised. Even the licensing is there just for big fat bribes, not for any regulation.
I am not advocating 100 % ban or free sale. The mess is all about mis governance. Neither we are sure that there should be 100% prohibition nor we are convinced that it should be 100% free for business. States have experimented both extremes and both extremes have failed. Not because of anything except for half hearted efforts and no sincerity in implementation. Even in states like Gujarat which is a dry state, you can get any alcoholic drink you want. AP failed in the prohibition efforts recently.
The liquor business is very tempting business for all. For govt more revenue as taxes, babus more bribes and businesses more profits with potential benefits of contacts and contracts from Politicians. The whole case rests on governance and a strong will to deal with the trade and its impact. I need not go into the effects of alcoholism and how it affects families and social fabric. Strong governance and law enforcement can prevent the social breakdown and also stop huge loss of revenue to govt from this business. Liquor is in one of the most traded/bribed item in the corridors of power and corporate world. Extortion, Goondaism and anti-social menaces are all ements that are connected with this mis governance. The attack on Pub is one such manifestation.
Coming to the issue of every tom & dick becoming law enforcer/breaker, it is the manifestation of our pathetic policing & law enforcement culture. If policing and law & order had played their role effectively, no KRV, no MNS would have dared to transgress one's rights and privacy. Again the entire blame is on Political class, who in their selfish motives and ill-designed games, has rendered police and the law enforcement toothless and action-less. Many times these are the very people whom the govt and politicians extend their support and blessings. If any thing is to be done, it is the clean up of politics with these viruses. We need to get rid of the goons, selfish netas and fraudsters from the political spectrum. Basically vote for one who values life, liberty and freedom of others, not only his.
Syed
Media is powerful; don't underestimate it.
Laws don't necesarily cover all evils of society.
Hooliganism is never acceptable
Re:How do you know about the western world?
Looks like you have a misconception that in western world alochol,tobacco & drugs are free for all.
In the US, anyone under the age of 21 is prohibited from consuming alchohol & tobacco. Any bar,pub, restaurant,liquor store who sells alcohol/tobacco to anyone under 21 is punished severely. So its in their best intrest to check the ID before selling these to anyone.Any kind of drugs is illegal in the US.Anyone caught selling or in possession of controlled substance are convicted.Scantily or inappropriately dressed men & women can be booked for indecency.
This is law and order. Going and beating up people which you have been supporting is talibanism. Plain & simple.
And who gave you or anyone the RIGHT to beat up people anyway. FYI... if you go and beat up people in a western world you will end up behind bars for atleast few years and will be branded a convicted criminal for rest of your life.
PS:I live and also spent my college years in the US,so please don't ask me how do I know about the alcohol & tobacco law in the US
BJP
re: Hooliganism is never acceptable
//can behave as they wish is also not correct. Laws don't
//cover all social evils. Alcoholism, semi-naked dancing
//in pubs, promiscuous behaviour are simply not covered.
//Would we tolerate our sons and daughters getting into
//these assuming that they are above 18 years in age?
My answer: That is precisely why we are called adults. If you or me find the above wrong then we simply don't be a part of those activities, simple isn't it? We can decide for ourselves and for our kids what we like/don't like, what we find incorrect and make appropriate choices versus being beaten black and blue by somebody else and told what to do.
Regarding alcoholism, comsuming loquor in a pub is not the same as alcoholism; an individual A can guzzle down bottles of liquor at home and go out and cause trouble. On the other hand an individual B can go to a pub for a social evening out, still drink responsibly, and act responsibly later. Trust me, I have seen both instances. What really matters is that individual A is caught and held responsible for his actions by law and sent to the proper forum to addrress his/her alcoholism (I am sure you have heard of groups like Alchoholic Anonymous) and of course since prevention is better than cure it comes back to education, good parenting etc.
:-) remember, some medical experts say drinking wine is slight moderation is good for the heart :-)
So west is progressive?
We tend to ape the west a lot..the pub/club culture..independence/freedom in the wrong sense etc
The other day there was a report that increasing number of women in UK are taking prenatal genetic tests to determine the father of the child and deciding to continue their pregnancy based on that for 99$! Is this progressive?!
Agreed they have laws prohibiting sale of liquor and drugs for under age people..but has that really worked?!
Prom nights is the biggest day for youth there..lets not hide saying they just dance around there drinking root beer..however 'arangetram' or the first public performance in classical music or dance is still the norm in Chennai
The west has exceptions too like what Fuser did however youth, especially in the early days, take easily the wrong path in the name of freedom
Where did we get the word 'groupies' from? freedom? ..This can go on and on!
Finally moderation is very important as BT says but thats mostly never on mind of 16-22's!
As the kannada song goes 'idena sabhyathe..idena samskruthi!'
Freedom...
Like SB suggested, let us put our emotions away.
Ravi
BlrSri - The road to hell is paved with good intentions
BlrSri,
I don't think any of us is suggesting that we imitate the west blindly or that sitting in a pub and drinking and dancing is desirable or undesirable. These are assaults on some of our fundamental rights. The road to hell is always paved with good intentions. Today it is drinking in a pub. Tomorrow it will be against wearing jeans. The day after it will be about talking in English in public. And then about listeniing to Pink Floyd :) Who gets to decide what is desirable or not?
If the general belief is that we really cannot decide what is good or bad for us till the age of 21 then raise the legal drinking age to 21 or 25 or whatever. But I am dead against self appointed guardians of culture and youth and their wayward ways.
And this whole Hindu culture bit frankly gets on my nerves. Which Hindu culture - the one in Mohenjo-daro or the one in Akbar's times or the one in Samudragupta's time? If you ask me, we are one the most morally corrupt nations in the world, where everything can be bought and sold, including women. PDS rations meant for poor people just gets stolen. Only 10% of money for public works programs actually trickles down to the beneficiaries. Corruption is a way of life in India. So let's not pretend we are inherently saints and it is the wily West that is corrupting us.
Srivathsa
Drive safe. It is not just the car maker which can recall its product.
and before we rattle off about the "corrupt west", some facts...
http://www.kamat.com/kalr... and here is documentation about drinking in Karnataka - http://www.kamat.com/kalr... and such evidence is present in old sculptures that we see today.
What is my point? Well let us be sane and not hypcritical when we start blaming the "morally corrupt" "western influence". It is as ridiculous as USA/UK etc. blaming India for the "bad influence" of corruption which is very much a fabric of our society.
There are multitude of organizations that truly promote culture & traditions in a truly constructive manner by organizing plays, dramas, musical orchestras, art & painting classes/competitions etc. When I studied in udupi/manipal I had the pleasure of attending one such yakshagana program by a little know group formed by volunteers under the leadership of the principal of a local college. People who liked, attended, the rest quitely went on with their lives. Let us support all these organizations who are the true promoters of art & culture and at the same time put the thugs (so called pseudo guardians of culture) involved in the Mangalore incident behind bars. We definitely don't need any moral policing of any sort, plain simple policing is the need of the hour.
self-righteous talk!
Well said Yajamaanre'.
Our country has adopted democracy as its form of governance. And, for all its short-comings (and, nobody is denying there aren't plenty of it), it still is the most acceptable form for any civilised society. There have been suggestions here that there should be certain curbs on freedom - of what kind, and who decides what?
Most PRAJA members haven't possibly experienced what happened when curbs on freedom were imposed by Mdm Indira Gandhi, during her infamous 'emergency' rule. It was her son Sanjay Gandhi who just took arbitrary decisions, like enforcing 'family planning' by subjecting parents with two or more children to vasectomy/ sterlisation operations, using government machinery. The babu's were given targets, and in order to achieve it, they used agents to round up even bachelors and spinsters and forced them to undergo the surgery. If you don't believe this, please ask any Delhiite, above the age of 55.
The press was gagged. So much so, the venerated Indian Express editor of those times, Mr Frank Moraes, published a few editions with the editorial page totally blank, to convey his protest (And, that's why I will always subscribe to Indian Express, even with a few things having gone wrong with the publication subsequently).
Rather than condemn the media, my admiration for it has increased considerably after the way its coverage of the Mangalore incidents forced the BJP government to do more than it was prepared to do initially. Even assuming that it had been tipped off in advance by the perpetrators, if one were to go by the conspiracy theory, the media certainly can't have known what exactly was planned. And, without that, what were they supposed to have told the police? The more important aspect is, even with such graphic details of the atrocities captured by the media, why was the government still pussy-footing the issue?
Media is one of the most important pillars of democracy, and for all its short-comings (and, there indeed are a few), it's playing a stellar role in bringing about the much needed balance in the system. And, the competition between them, besides, is helping correct most of the short-comings.
And, Mayank, Draupadi in the venerated Mahabharata was shared by five brothers. That doesn't mean that Hindu's should be espousing that example. We in PRAJA can very well do without self-righteous preaching, please!
Muralidhar Rao
Who is the REAL TALIBAN?
Is the media all that saintly?
Lets not get carried away by fancy terms
Is this self-righteous preaching???
You miss the point again.
Proposal please...
Mayank,
Maybe you should just clearly state what and how exactly you propose to control. Please don't forget to include all the facts and figures. Also state objective goals.
-- navshot
Freedom is hard earner; Being responsible is much harder.
Corruption has nothing to do with Hinduism or any religion.
Obsession with fundamental rights could be the road to hell too.
My purpose.
Mayank...
I think we are mixing issues here. The issue I raised - was moral policing. This is what organizations such as Ram Sena and others are doing. This is what we call Moral Policing.
What you are talking about is the basic Law, the problems in society and civic sense. Yes these are valid and need to be addressed. This is not moral policing.
These problems are NOT culture specific. They are harmful because they harm not only individuals but other around. Smoking is a prime example. Drugs & Alcohol too, is a problem(Drinking and Driving...etc)
So the question I really want to ask you is:
User Interaction Designer
Bangalore
Psuedo??
First it was pseudo secular now it is pseudo liberal. So anyone who does not think the way you think is pseudo-something is it?
I don't think there are too many people on this forum who don't think that alcoholism is a problem. I also don't think that people become bad because they smoke a cigarette or have beer at a pub. If someone wants to have a drink or two - man or woman - they should be free to. If after they drink they make a nuisance of themselves, they should be hauled up. If they kill someone by driving in a drunken state they should be sentenced to many years in jail. BTW - I am a teetotaler and don't spend my time partying at pubs. I have better things to do - but that does not give me the right to go around telling people what to do.
Most of us here have a problem when a mob in the name of Hindu culture goes about vandalizing public and private property and beating up men and women. That is what this thread is all about and you seem to be in agreement.
Do you know the amount of hard work it took to get the Magna Carta signed. Do you realize what a great victory Habeus Corpus was in the 13th century when a king could just jail you or have your head cut off? Or that you could be burned at the stakes if you believed that the earth went round the sun and not the other way. Your fundamental rights are what allow you to be a free human being in a country and not a slave whose existence is at the whim of a ruler. Don't blame democracy or our consitution or our fundamental rights for society's problems. Our constitution is what separates India from a banana republic.
Srivathsa
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Do I have a problem?
If an individual wants to get drunk at his own expense, not harm anyone around and "ape" western culture without affecting any of us - would you have a problem?
No. As long as he is within the legal framework, who am I to stop him?
But if I did have a problem with it, I have many options. I could possibly have a respectful conversation with the guy, if he is willing. We have a democratically elected legislative process. We have the freedom to go to a court with a PIL or to organize a peaceful campaign to enlighten our legislators to take action. Yes, we are in for a long haul, and chances are none of the above may bear fruit in today's India. But that is what happens in a developing democracy!.
And we always have the social structure to help the individual - in terms of family, friends, and the society at large. Reasons and excuses might be many - but today, unfortunately in my opinion, we don't do a good job teaching moral principles (truth, non-violence et al) to our kids. That is a topic worth a different thread altogether.
What we don't need is some body (however good their intentions might be) taking unilateral action, and undermining the basic freedoms. Like I said before, let us help mature our democracy. Not undermine it.
Ravi
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